Sunday, May 08, 2005

Dr Love

Dr Love

This past week has just been filled with loads of conflicts in love and relationships. Today I play the role of Dr Love. Dr Love who is running short on remedies. Never had to deal with these many problems before. Let me share some situations with you.

Problem 1: Ahmad really likes Rachel, and having some hints from close friends that she liked him, made the effort to confess this to her. Having done so, she turns him down saying she liked someone else. Ahmed now feels confused and hurt, and afraid of what would happen if this mysterious other person happened to be his friend. He may have to exile himself from the group to 'save face'.

Problem 2: Jasmine has been dreaming of her dream guy Pradeep, waiting patiently that some day he would ask her out, often day-dreaming of him. One day she hears rumours from various people about Pradeep, advising her to keep away from him. Now Pradeep goes and asks her out to the upcoming ball. In a daze she says yes, but is not sure after hearing all these rumours. This is her dream guy, could he be so bad after all?

Problem 3: Sameer falls madly in love with Jasminder, who comes from a pure punjabi family who values traditions like a goddess. Sameer says he has never felt so much in love before. After only a few days of sneaking behind her parents back, going out, her mum comes to know about it, and threatens to tell her friend Carry's mum about Carry's relationship with her boyfriend Paul who is also kept in secret if Jasminder refuses to break up with Sameer. Jasminder and Carry are best friends.

Problem 4: Steve and Kelly have been going out for 5 years. One day Kelly walks in on Steve kissing Dave, his soccer buddy. Kelly is wondering if that meant her relationship is over, or could Steve just be foolin around?

Problems, many for a week. There are 7 other problems might I conclude. Although these are the striking ones. Never have I played Dr Love before, and this is starting to be alot of fun although the doctor is running short on remedies. Feel free to assist Dr Love on any of this problems. She needs your help! So start studying on medical love...

(names have been altered to prevent conflicts and protect each individuals reputation)


Anonymous said...

hey ahmad,listen dude.I know you are feelin hurt and maybe confused but relax.If it is YOUR friend,shouldnt you be happy for him?.I know you got feelings for her,but does she really have it for you?If she doesnt,you are just wasting emotions.If she does,but is lying to you,its her friggin lost man.

Jasmine,skrew what others say or think.Follow your heart.Find out what he really is for yourself.who know,he might be the one.You would never forgive your self if you didnt find out.

i really got no comments on question 3 coz thats so bold and beautiful or young and restless type of senario......sorry

problem 4:first let my say............THATS FUCKIN WHACKED!!!!!!.But after splashing my self wit cold water(really cold water),i suggest that Kelly really discuss this with steve and ask him to come clean.Just come clean.

Anonymous said...

prob #1:hey ahmad, first do u think tht yr other frnds knw tht she like some1 else and just want to make u uncomfortable, they push u to tell her tht u like her?try to find out, if yes tht means da other guy is frm yr frnd circle,and no 1 care 4 u in da group, u r just a third character of yr frnd circle.thn its better u "save-face".or, if u r confident abut u,and yr frnds just take it as a joke.the whole incident, think just never happen. act nonchalant.and if u don't feel happy 4 yr friend,thn pls don't be filmi and try to act happy 4 yr friend,t care.

Anonymous said...

prob #2: yah, he can be bad. but, always give yrself a chance,thn decide yrself.because, thr r so many ppl in our socity, thy hav nothing to do in thr life,so just gossip all da time.and another thing, may be thy r jelous abt u and him.thts y they lie to u abt pradeep.never belive wht u hear. i think u r adult enough to make yr own decision, based on yr other hand, if u really feel tht pradeep can harm u (although u didn't mention,wht kind of rumours u heard.but i guess thy mean he is playboy or not trustable)so u also act with him, don't go 4 serious thing until he gain yr faith.k.t care

Anonymous said...

prob #3: is it really true or just a excuse to avoid sameer?if its true, thn jass's mom is sooooo lame,tht she threat her own daughter by using her friend.u shld tell her 1st "get a life" and 2nd"keep herself out frm some1(carry)else life".and in yr part, u just follow yr heart.if u like tht guy go 4 it.parents r not 4 whole life.but be sure tht sameer worth it or not.and abt u and carry, plsssssssssss stop watching hindi movie and behave like a grown up.ths silly matter can't affect yr frndship, if u both r really good frnd. or carry can tell her mom tht, somehow yr mom hate her, and she always love to gossip abt simple. t care.

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Anonymous said...

prob #4: thr can be 2 problem,1st if kelly didn't knw tht steve is bisexual, tht means thr relation totally based on lies.but, thy r going out for last 5 years and its immposible tht she even can't guess tht her bf is bi.then 2nd problem is ,if kally knw tht steve is bi, but she thought now a days steve only love her and don't hav any boyfrieend, again tht means steve is cheating on the question is 1) r u ready to accept tht steve is bisex?coz' if u r planning to change him, thn sry sweetheart u can't.coz' u hav 2 understand tht gay or bisexuality is not a disease, its a human sexuality.exactly da way u feel 4 a guy, he also if u try 2 force him ,he ll just hide frm u in 2)if u can accept da fact tht he is bi, but u can't share him with any1(doesn't matter its a guy or girl) also thn u can't be with if u really luv him thaaaat much ,tht u r ready to compromise da factors avove, thn u r ready 4 a mature love life, and congratulation 4 u.and if u can't ,also never mind. life comes with lots of choice and options, best of luck 4 yr future.and another thing, if they 2 were kissing alone at tht place and now steve is saying tht, he was just making fun or trying 4 new stuffs, don't listen to him. he is lieing with u and himself.better u show tht u r ok with bi thing and make him convince tht he is bi.ok.t care

daenielle said...

I suppose it's too bad that love is not a subject that can be taught. But then again, that's a good thing cuz then it would be boring and predictable! Nontheless, it is part of growing up and maturing, so you gotta take it as it comes and try your very best to deal with each situation in the best possible way and with the other person's best interests in mind. Not easy but important in maintaining the friendship. You're doing a good job, Dr. Love. Keep it up.